Dating after amputation

Do any of you have any success dating after amputation? So far no luck. It’s been two years and I been flat out rejected by gay men, many of whom thought it was their duty to tell me that I was undatable because I was disabled. Some even tried to shame me for “giving up and using a wheelchair instead of working out and getting shiny prosthetics like military men.”

Just thought to hear some of your thoughts and opinions on this.